Made up of 44 countries on the continent, Europe is a bucket-list destination for many travelers. While each of those countries will have variations in language, culture, and social norms, there are some key ways you can prepare for your trip as a whole.
Know the correct greeting
Across Europe, there are different norms for greeting friends and strangers. In the United Kingdom, you might be offered a hand to shake, though a kiss on the cheek is increasingly becoming the norm between friends. In France, to “faire la bise” (kiss the cheek) has long been commonplace, though you’ll see it in most other European countries now. Cheeks touch but the kiss is made in the air as a gentle sign of acknowledgement.
Different countries and regions have different customs. You may need to do at least two kisses, perhaps even four. Let the other person lead the greeting to be certain. Women kiss everyone, while men usually only kiss women. Accordingly, use a handshake if you’re unsure to assure good manners
Prepare for long days and lots a walking
Compared to the United States, European cities are more walkable, and you’ll find that you’ve walked many miles by the end of day. Be sure to wear comfortable shoes that have support and wear any newly purchased pairs a few times before departure. You may want to walk or hike prior to your trip to become comfortable with the pace.
Learn to queue
The willingness to form an orderly line isn’t just in the UK, though Brits are expert at this practice. Across much of western and northern Europe you’ll find people lining up for everything from museum entries to coffee. If you’re not into standing in line, take advantage of the skip-the-line tickets offered by many of Europe’s best known sights and attractions.
Use public transportation
When not walking, you will also find much of Europe connected by public transit. Bus and train systems connect cities, countries and regions that you can use to your advantage by planning day trips accordingly. In the city, trains, trams, boats, or any other form of public transit will provide a glimpse of local culture. It’s an efficient and cost-effective way to get around and gives you a break from walking.
Also it’s polite to let people exit public transportation before you enter. European subways are quite crowded. No one wants to miss their train, but it’s best to wait until everyone’s off before stepping onto the train, bus, or tram. In some stations, colorful feet are painted on the platform to help you stand in the right place.
Be prepared for a slower meal pace
Quick service is standard in many American restaurants, but the opposite is true in Europe. Collecting a plate and utensils immediately after a diner has put down their knife and fork would be considered quite rude in Europe. Eating out is to be savored and never rushed as it is treated as a social occasion. If you really are in a hurry, inform your waiter when they come to take your drinks order that you have to be out by a certain time, and ask for the bill at the same time as you place your food order to avoid a lengthy wait when you’re done.
Dine on local cuisine
Traveling to Europe is an opportunity to try foods and flavors that are truly unique. You’ll see certain specialty products that have “Protected Designation of Origin” status, meaning they come from a specific region. Asiago, Prosciutto di Parma, Camembert de Normandie, and Champagne are just a few examples that you will find across Europe. Additionally, Greek cuisine, particularly such sweets as baklava and kataifi, reflects Greece‘s rich history and centuries of Turkish rule.
You may also find dinners are later in the evening, so don’t be surprised when you see diners sitting down at 9 or 10 at night.
Learn key words and phrases of the local cultures
Europe is filled with many languages. Map out the destinations to which you are traveling, and attempt to learn key phrases in their most commonly spoken languages. Some basic phrases you will want to know include:
- “Hello” and “goodbye”
- “Please” and “thank you”
- “I would like to order….”
- “Where is the restroom?”
- “How much does it cost?”
Research local customs
In addition to learning the languages of your European destinations, it’s also good practice to learn about each country’s customs and social norms. For example, shops and restaurants in Spain usually close for an afternoon siesta or “midday rest” between 2-5 pm, so you’ll want to be sure to pack a snack for later in the day. There are other differences that it may behoove you to learn while researching the different countries that you will be visiting.
Tipping isn’t the norm
The tipping culture is not the same in Europe as it is in the United States. Although it’s common to add around 10% to the bill when you’re dining out, it’s rare to add more. In Italy, it is normal for a service charge to be added to your bill so there is no need to add an additional tip. It’s a good idea to ask your concierge what’s the norm, as expectations vary considerably from country to country.
