Many of us love visiting museums and immersing ourselves in history, culture, and art. Museums allow us to expand our knowledge about world events, discover the stories of different countries, and admire remarkable works of art that have stood the test of time. Whether you are visiting the Louvre in Paris or a small local museum with only a handful of exhibits, good manners and respect should always guide your behavior, remarks Maryanne Parker, Founder and Executive Director, Manor of Manners.
While enjoying works of art in various exhibits in museums all around the world, there are a few etiquette rules to follow to ensure that everyone can enjoy their experience equally.
Do Not Touch the Exhibits
“One of the most important museum rules is simple: Do not touch the exhibits,” Parker exclaims. She further reminds us to “admire each piece from a respectful distance, read the information provided, appreciate its beauty, and then continue to the next display. Many museum objects are hundreds—or even thousands—of years old, and preserving them for future generations is everyone’s responsibility.”
Exhibit Viewing
“Take your time as you view each work in the gallery. However, be mindful of others, particularly if the museum has a high volume of visitors, and move along after you’ve had a look,” suggests Cinzi Lavin, a member of the Connecticut Art Council. “While regular conversation is discouraged, you may quietly make remarks to others in your party from time to time. Save broader discussions for the lobby or café,” recommends Lavin.
“Consider the various works on display and when you find something that resonates with you, stop for a moment to take it all in. Ask yourself how it makes you feel. There is no “right” or “wrong” interpretation of art, and if discussing a work with others, be appreciative of their views even if they differ from yours,” Lavin further comments.
Photography
“Photography policies vary from museum to museum. Some museums prohibit photography entirely, while others allow photos but forbid flash, as bright flashes can damage delicate artworks over time. Before taking pictures, always check the museum’s rules or ask a member of staff,” suggests Parker.
Cell Phones
No need for a reminder here! However, “it is worth repeating. Keep your phone on silent and avoid taking phone calls inside the museum. If you need to answer an important call, step outside first,” Parker reminds.
Food & Drink
Food and drink are generally prohibited from museum display areas. However, there is usually a café on site where you can enjoy a beverage, snack, or lunch.
Voices
Keep your voices down. “Museums are places of learning, reflection, and quiet appreciation. If you are visiting with family or friends, speak softly rather than shouting across the room. Respect the peaceful atmosphere so everyone can enjoy the experience,” Parker explains.
Dress
“Dress respectfully; leave cutoff shorts, flip flops, or sweatpants at home, although casual pants, blouses, or dresses will be fine; more formal attire is also acceptable. Comfortable shoes are the best choice as there will be a lot of walking and standing,” Lavin suggests.
Guided Tours
Another suggestion given by Parker is to “avoid joining a guided tour without permission.” “Visitors have often paid for the guide, and it is only appropriate to join the group if you have been invited.”
Docents
“The docents who attend the galleries are there for your benefit,” states Lavin. “If you have a question about a work of art, they are highly trained and happy to offer insights. They are also there to direct you if you wish to find a particular work or gallery,” Lavin further remarks.
Children
Parents and caregivers should choose where to start a child’s museum experience. Many cities, and even smaller towns, do have locations that are actually geared towards children. Set low expectations. Be sure the child is ready for this experience. This should include discussing in advance where you are going and the expected behaviors. For museums with many exhibits, choose one or two halls to view. Then end the interaction before the child is overwhelmed,” explains Jodi RR Smith of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting.
“Rather than subjecting a child to an entire museum, doing one or two galleries with a long break afterwards or a snack will give them an opportunity to learn museum etiquette without boredom. Discuss their experience with them; in the gift shop, buy them a postcard of their favorite work which they can keep at home as a reminder of their visit,” Parker further comments.
Libraries
Lastly, Smith adds that “local librarians are often an overlooked source of museum information. In addition to knowing about the museums in your area, they often have free or heavily discounted museum passes.”
